The Grief Journey
It might surprise you to know that…
we have lived with the ‘grief’ of change and loss all our lives:
- The loss of relationships, friendships, marriage, pets, jobs, money, opportunity, health, homes, dreams.
- This time it’s the death of our spouse, or other loved one close to us, and that loss assumes a very different meaning, depth and significance.
- Our feelings are overwhelmingly mixed, sadness, loneliness, anger, helplessness, fear, depression, confusion.
- The finality of the loss demands all of our attention! It takes over our life.
- It often feels like living with an uninvited stranger within, called ‘Grief’.
Holding on to grief – is like holding on to ‘fire’.
It will consume you unless you know how to work through it.
- The more you learn about grief – the better you can handle it.
- Grief is not a self healing condition and cannot be done alone because it’s far too complex, painful and life changing and needs to be done with skill, empathy and support.
- With a little guidance, grief language comes naturally to those who need to express it and without expression, there can be no inner growth or completion of the journey.